It's My (Our) Wedding and I'll Whine if I Want To!!!
Tony said: If I'm going to take part in this wedding (and spend my money on it) I should have some say as to what is going on. And you make me sound like I am constantly butting in with the planning, the biggest thing I've complained about was you choice of colors. Black signifies death! Do you want our wedding to be surrounded by signs of death? I'd rather have more happier and vibrant colors. I'm definitely not trying to take over the wedding, but I do want to be involved. If I were to sit there and say nothing, you would get mad at me, I could already hear the "I'm having to do this whole thing BY MYSELF while you sit on your ass and watch football!!" I can't win if I help, and I can't win if I don't help.
Allie said: And the Transformer in a tuxedo as a wedding cake topper!!!!! I have to admit that is a good one.. But dressing up as Chingo Bling? Now I have looked the other way At Optimus being on our cake It was something that took awhile for me to get over. I remember when I was a little girl my grandmother told me that she wanted to bake my wedding cake and it was something she looked forward to. This makes me sad cause it reminds me of her and how that she will never be able to. So naturally I am very picky. And here you come making a joke of something that hits my heart. But I bit my tongue cause this is your day also..But if the transformer is up there then either a care bear or a my little pony is gonna be right next to it.
Tony Said: First of all, you thought it was cute that my mom used to dress me up in boots, and yes I did sport the shorts/boots look when I was a child. So I joked that since Chingo Bling is making that look fashionable, maybe I should dress like that....but it was a joke!! Now, Optimus Prime is one bad motherfucker...and who better to have represent me on top of our wedding cake than him? But all joking aside, I want this wedding to reflect a part of my personality, and I am a big kid at heart, and since you have my heart now, you also get Optimus Prime. And not all my suggestions have been humorous. I also suggested that our wedding invitations are printed only in Spanish because for 1.) it serves to reflect our heritage and 2.) because the Spanish language just looks more romantic on paper than the English language does.
Allie said: . As far as the wedding invitations being in Spanish I suggested printing some for the Spanish speakers in our Family and English for the others. The wedding is not until February 2009 We still have a ways to go but I wanna get most of it out of the way because 1.) I am very picky and am always changing my mind. 2.) I want it all to be perfect even though I know that things can go wrong. I want plenty of time to plan